How to Support Your Stressed Student

How to Support Your Stressed Student The pressure and stress of academia can, at times, become too much for studentsand excess stress can have an impact on all areas of your students life. Take note of any negative changes in behavior or body language, or withdrawal from extracurriculars or school interests. If you notice any of these changes or your student expresses to you that they are experiencing feelings of excess stress, follow these strategies to support your stressed student: Support your stressed student by fostering open communication When it comes to understanding your students stress, communication is key. Aim to understand what is causing stress in your student and how it affects them individually. Sometimes stress can manifest as physical symptoms, such as stomach pains or headaches. Other times, stress can make your student shut down or withdraw. Once you have initiated an open line of communication with your student and have a better understanding of their stress, work together to develop coping strategies. Maybe there is a particular song or musical group whose music helps them feel calm. If this is the case, encourage your student to listen to this song before school, in study hall (if allowed), or during study breaks. [RELATED: How to Help Your Elementary School Student Cope with Test Anxiety] Support your stressed student by creating a schedule When your student is experiencing stress, examine their schedule and workload to see if any adjustments can be made. For example: Are your students classes too hard? If so, inquire with your students teacher if there are extra credit opportunities, or seek out a private tutor to reduce stress. Are your students extracurriculars impacting their academics? If so, ask your student if any of their extracurriculars are causing stress. Eliminate any if necessary, or scale back depending on the activitys demands. Does your student get overwhelmed during study time? If so, try structuring homework time differently and manage their time depending on what their stressors are. For instance, if your student prefers to get the challenging subjects out of the way first, plan homework time accordingly. In addition to helping your student adjust their schedule to lessen stress, encourage your student to schedule downtime. While it is important to dedicate time to homework, studying, and extracurriculars, setting aside relaxation time can be vital to reducing stress. Encourage your student to spend some time each dayeven if its just 15 minutes before bedreading, journaling, or doing some activity they find relaxing and enjoyable. Often, students will get so overwhelmed with projects and activities that they forget to factor any downtime into their schedule. [RELATED: 3 Ways Students Can Benefit From Journaling] Support your stressed student by developing a game plan Use the strategies you both developed during your discussions, and implement them into a plan of action for when your student experiences stress. Sit down with your student and go over these strategies so they feel more equipped when stressful situations arise. If your student experiences stress at school, inform your students teacher(s) of the situation. Explain that your student has coping strategies, and work with him or her to find ways these can be incorporated. If your students teacher understands the situation, he or she can be a great ally for your student if stress strikes during the school day. If your student experiences stress at home during study or homework time, implement breaks and positive reinforcement. Encouraging your student to practice good time management techniques can be another positive way to reduce stress. Often, students get stressed during tests or homework time because they feel rushed and fear they wont complete the task on time. Developing time management skills can help your student feel more confident, and in turn less stressed, when encountering these situations both at home and at school. Stress affects everyone differently, so its important to understand your students individual needs. Have conversations with your student regarding what causes their stress and various ways to manage it. If your student knows they have you on their side, they can approach not only academics, but each aspect of their life with increased confidence. Any topics you want to know more about? Let us know! The Varsity Tutors Blog editors love hearing your feedback and opinions. Feel free to email us at blog@varsitytutors.com.